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You Are Not Alone
Websites, podcasts, and other resources to help guide and support you before, during and after a divorce.
Family Home Guide
This guide will help you consider the financial, emotional, legal and tax implications of keeping your home, or selling it.
Why Mediation?
Great question! There are so many benefits of using mediation to resolve your divorce or other disputes. Learn more.
Divorce Essentials
If you are considering divorce or have been informed that your spouse wants a divorce (and you live in New York State), I found this relatively short book helpful in providing comprehensive information about what to expect so you that you can understand your rights and begin to participate in decisions about your future.
Divorce in New York: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What to Expect by Michael Stutman, Esq
Parenting
You’re about to embark on a new parenting journey, co-parenting. But what does that look like and how are you going to figure out a schedule that’s best for your child.
two homes ONE CHILDHOOD, A Parenting Plan to Last a Lifetime by Robert E. Emery, Ph.D.
This is a wonderful book that thoroughly describes the needs of your child at every stage of their life and recommends parenting schedules that align with your child’s developmental needs. Dr. Emery provides evidence-based details that help you understand your child’s needs and provides you the guidance to develop a schedule that is child-centered and age appropriate. This is a book that you will reference throughout childhood and can provide you much needed peace and confidence in your decision making.
The Truth About Children and Divorce: Dealing with the Emotions So You and Your Children Can Thrive by Robert E. Emery, Ph.D.
Another great resource from Dr. Emery offer parents a compassionate guide through the divorce process. He reveals how our emotions—and the way we manage them—deeply influence how we navigate divorce and, ultimately, the impact on children. Dr. Emery’s message is both realistic and hopeful: while divorce is always difficult, parents have the power to foster resilience in their children. This book is essential in developing parenting plans that focus on the long-term needs of the children.
Prenuptial and Postnuptial Agreements
You’re getting married, or remarried. Do you need a prenup? Social media is encouraging you get one but you don’t know why you want or need one.
Laurie Israel offers a compassionate and practical approach to prenuptial agreements, reframing them as tools for generosity and teamwork rather than protection and fear. This thoughtful guide helps couples create agreements that honor both partners’ contributions and support a strong foundation for the future.