Three Things to Know Before Hiring a Divorce Mediator
Choosing the right divorce mediator can make a meaningful difference in how the process feels and unfolds. Here are some tips.
The Hidden Signs Workplace Conflict Is Brewing And How Mediation Can Help
Hidden workplace conflict rarely announces itself. But there are common hidden signs.
One Small Shift That Can Prevent Conflict From Escalating
Many people think conflict begins with a disagreement.
In reality, it often starts much earlier.
Is Birdnesting Just for Birds: How Birdnesting Can Help Co-Parents
Just like birds build a safe nest for their young until they’re ready to fly, parents can create a stable “nest” for their children when going through divorce. Learn more.
From Chaos to Clarity: How Mediation Brings Calm to Divorce
A mediator helps untangle the mess and bring clarity to complex decisions. When things are clear, emotions can settle—and meaningful agreements can take shape.
Life Lessons from Pre-K: Rules Worth Revisiting
Somewhere between nap time and the 9-to-5, we’ve forgotten the beauty of these simple lessons.
Gray Divorce, Grown Children
There's another group affected by marital splits -- adult children of gray divorce. But they are adults, shouldn’t they be okay?
Mediating When Only One of You is Motivated
Sometimes, one person is ready to try mediation—and the other isn’t. That can feel discouraging. But it doesn’t have to be the end of the road.
In fact, it can be the start of something productive.
Stuck, Silent, and Struggling? Mediation Moves You Forward
Sometimes, life throws us into situations we didn’t ask for, don’t want, and are wholly unprepared for — family breakdowns, business disputes, community tensions, divorce. And sometimes, we get stuck there, for months or even years, paralyzed by uncertainty and fear.
When Divorce Feels Like a Death
Divorce doesn’t come with a funeral. There are no casseroles dropped off at your door, no sympathy cards, no formal rituals to mark the end. But for many, it feels just like a death—and in many ways, it is.
Mediation: A Judgment-Free Journey
When conflict arises—whether in business, family matters, or personal relationships—the fear of judgment can keep us from seeking the help we need. Many people hesitate to enter mediation because they worry about being criticized, blamed, or having their private matters scrutinized. Let me put those concerns to rest: mediation is fundamentally designed as a judgment-free environment where confidentiality reigns supreme
Balanced Voices, Better Conversations: How Mediators Ensure Fair and Respectful Dialogue
If you find yourself in a relationship where your partner tends to dominate, withdraw, or manipulate during difficult conversations, you might worry about how this dynamic could play out in mediation.
Make Mediation Your First Move
Let’s be honest — conflicts are inevitable. Too often, people rush to litigation, escalating conflicts rather than resolving them. But there’s a better way: mediation. Mediation should be the first stop in conflict resolution, not the last resort. Here’s why.
What Stranded Astronauts Can Teach Us About Divorce
This week, the world watched as two stranded astronauts finally returned to Earth. Originally scheduled to be away for just eight days, their journey unexpectedly stretched into nine long months. It was a powerful reminder that life is unpredictable—things don’t always go as planned, and sometimes, we must find new ways to move forward.
The same can be said for divorce.
You are Writing Your Child’s Memoir
When parents divorce, it’s as if a new chapter is being written in their child’s life. This chapter, while inevitable for many families, can take vastly different tones depending on how the separation is handled. For children, their understanding of family, relationships, and even themselves is deeply influenced by the dynamics they experience during this time.
Mediate or Marinate?
Are you ready to design your new life or would you prefer to marinate in a sauce of what I call FHAD: Fear, Hurt, Anger, and Disappointment? FHAD can have a profound impact on our physical and emotional well-being, negatively shaping how we think, behave, and interact with others. It can impact our relationships, our work, and in general, make us feel more stuck. So how do you know that you are ready for mediation? Here are some indicators that couples are ready for mediation.
What about Fido?
For many, pets are like family members, offering love, companionship, and comfort during difficult times. However, determining pet custody isn’t always straightforward and therefore can be quite stressful. When awarding custody of a pet to one of the parties, the court will consider various factors, such as:
The Family Home: Love it or List it?
Divorce brings with it a whirlwind of emotional and practical decisions, and one of the most significant is deciding what to do with the family home.
If you’re grappling with whether to stay in your home or move on, here’s a guide to help you make an informed choice.