What about Fido?
My dog, Rocky.
For many, pets are like family members, offering love, companionship, and comfort during difficult times. However, determining pet custody isn’t always straightforward and therefore can be quite stressful. In New York State, recent changes in legal attitudes have made it clear that pets are not simply "property" in the same way a couch or a car might be—but neither are they treated quite like children. When awarding custody of a pet to one of the parties, the court will consider various factors, such as:
Who has been the primary caretaker of the pet (feeding, grooming, walking, vet visits).
Who has more time and resources to care for the pet going forward.
The emotional bond between the pet and the parties, as well as between the pet and children in the household.
The stability and environment of each party's home.
In mediation, you have the right to develop co-pet parenting plans, meaning you can decide to continue to share in the care and enjoyment of your pet.
What Is a Co-Pet Parenting Plan?
A co-pet parenting plan is a formal agreement between ex-partners that outlines how they will share responsibilities and time with their pet after separation. Similar to child custody agreements, these plans can include a detailed schedule and clear guidelines to avoid conflicts.
Key Components of a Co-Pet Parenting Plan:
Custody and Visitation Schedule: Establish who will care for the pet on specific days, weekends, or holidays.
Expense Sharing: Decide how costs like food, grooming, and vet bills will be divided.
Emergency Care: Outline what happens if the pet requires emergency medical attention and who makes major health decisions.
Travel and Relocation Rules: Include guidelines for vacations or potential moves to ensure continuity of care.
Communication Guidelines: Determine how you will coordinate pet-related matters, including updates or changes to the schedule.
A co-pet parenting plan offers a compassionate and practical solution that allows both parties to maintain their emotional bond with the pet and remain an important part of their pet’s life. If you’re navigating a pet custody dispute, I can help you mediate a balanced and harmonious resolution that keeps your furry friend safe, happy, and loved.
